This past weekend, I watched A Christmas Carol, and it struck me how relevant Charles Dickens’ classic story remains today. On the surface, it’s a tale of ghosts and redemption, but at its heart, it’s a powerful story about accountability and the transformative decision to change our ways.
Ebenezer Scrooge’s journey is not just about a miserable old man learning to embrace generosity. It’s a universal reminder that we all have the capacity to reflect on our actions, acknowledge the hurt we’ve caused, and strive to do better. In many ways, Scrooge’s story is our story. It’s about how we choose to respond to life’s challenges, how we treat others, and how we can become a source of hope and light in a sometimes-dark world.
Taking Accountability
One of the key lessons of A Christmas Carol is the importance of taking accountability for our actions. Scrooge is forced to confront the reality of his behaviour through the visits of the Ghosts of Christmas Past, Present, and Future. They show him the ripple effects of his cruelty and selfishness—how his actions have hurt others and how they’ve isolated him in turn.
In our own lives, we may not be visited by spectral guides, but we’re presented with moments that call us to reflect. Are there ways we’ve been unkind or defensive? Times we’ve let our own struggles justify hurting someone else? It’s not easy to admit when we’ve been wrong, but accountability is the first step toward meaningful change.
Choosing Kindness
Life can be hard. When we’re overwhelmed by stress or weighed down by our own struggles, it’s easy to retreat into defensiveness. We focus on our own pain, our own perspective, and our walls go up. But Scrooge’s story reminds us of the power of choosing kindness—even when it’s difficult.
To lead with kindness requires intentionality. It means actively listening to others, even when we feel unheard. It means being vulnerable enough to admit when we’ve made a mistake and offering a heartfelt apology when necessary. Scrooge’s transformation isn’t just about giving money or gifts; it’s about opening his heart. It’s about seeing people—really seeing them—and choosing connection over self-interest.
Hope and Light
One of the most beautiful themes in A Christmas Carol is the idea of hope. No matter how far-gone Scrooge seems, he’s never beyond redemption. The future shown to him by the Ghost of Christmas Yet to Come is bleak, but it’s not set in stone. Scrooge has the power to change, and so do we.
This time of year, we’re reminded of the light that can shine through even the darkest moments. Whether it’s the glow of Christmas lights, the warmth of gathering with loved ones, or simply the joy of a kind word or gesture, there’s always hope. We can be that light for each other by choosing kindness, practicing accountability, and offering grace—both to ourselves and others.
Moving Forward
As the new year approaches, Scrooge’s story challenges us to think about how we’re living our own lives. Are we carrying grudges or bitterness that weigh us down? Are we treating others with the compassion and respect they deserve? Are we brave enough to look in the mirror and take steps toward becoming better versions of ourselves?
Change isn’t easy, but it’s possible. It starts with small, intentional choices: being kind when it’s easier to be harsh, listening when we’d rather speak, and apologising when we’ve fallen short. These acts, as simple as they seem, can create ripples of hope and light that spread far beyond our immediate circles.
So, this holiday season, let’s take a page from Scrooge’s book. Let’s lead with kindness, embrace accountability, and shine a little brighter in the lives of those around us. Because no matter how hard life gets, there’s always a chance to change—and always a reason to hope.